In the case of the double customary of being referred to as a “diva,” Ariana Grande is preventing again.
In a brand new interview with Zane Lowe on Apple Music, the 26-year-old Grammy winner tackled being referred to as a “diva” and questioned why males are handled otherwise for a similar conduct.
“I stopped doing interviews for a really long time because I felt like whenever I would get into a position where somebody would try to say something for clickbait or twist my words or blah, blah, blah, I would defend myself. And then, people would be like, ‘Oh, she’s a diva.’ And I was like, ‘This doesn’t make any sense,'” she advised him. “If I have an opinion artistically or if I am directing something, or if I have something to say regarding a choice that’s being made with my career or something, blah, blah, blah, it always was in the past kind of manipulated and turned into this negative thing, whereas I don’t see that with men.”
The star elaborated, “It’s like when men express their opinions or defend themselves or are directing something and making notes on something, they’re ‘brilliant’ and they’re ‘geniuses’…and yet, it’s just so not the same thing with women, which I hope we can work on fixing.”
“And of course that’s not always the case,” Grande clarified. “It’s not always that way. But it does make it kind of…It makes you want to quiet down a little bit. But I’m trying to also say ‘f–k that.’ You know what I mean? I’m tired of seeing women silenced by it.”
Whereas she desires to combat the double customary, the star additionally acknowledged how having your feedback twisted or referred to as out publicly could make you query your self and your will to specific your opinion.
“I think there’s this thing where we’ll hear something, or be, ‘Oh, she said this.’ And then it really sits with you. And you feel like, ‘Oh wow. Should I not express myself anymore? Should I not have this fight that I want to have anymore? Should I just say, okay, and let it be?'”
For Grande, it seemingly took a toll. “And then it kind of f–ks you up a little bit,” she advised Lowe. “But yeah, of course it’s not an all the time thing. But, it is definitely still prominent. But, I’m trying to just say, ‘F–k it,’ and let go of that trauma. Because I do have a lot to say, and I do enjoy talking to people. And I do want to do interviews and share with people, and not be afraid to be myself.”
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